90 ) - Men Who Cheat On Their Wives!!!
I am not married, but, I am embarrassed to say that I was until recently involved with a married man.
When Anthony and I became friends I was going through a very rough period. I was lonely, hurt, not to mention depressed. I was healing from a previous relationship. He was a real charmer, and, a really nice person.
I have known Anthony for years (though we hardly spoke to each other). His wife and I communicated more. Actually, I had a crush on her. Yes, I am bi-sexual.
Circumstances caused Anthony and I to become close (friends) and it was during this period that I revealed to him my feelings towards his wife. Having revealed same he explored the possibility of his wife and me share romantic moments. Well, this was what he told me. Now that I think about it, I don’t think he ever did such a thing. Instead of his wife and I getting together, Anthony and I started a relationship. Well, at the time I thought it was a relationship.
He started visiting me. I remembered the first time he kissed me; it was repulsive, because initially I didn’t share his feelings. Anyways, it so happens that I was “charmed” by him and things went further than a kiss. He has a great personality. You just cannot help to like him.
It is so amazing how a woman would give her all to a man and get so little in return. Such fools we are.
Because he was married and he has his family, we both understood that seeing each other would be limited. Not to mention the fact that his wife watches him like a hawk. Well, so he said.
He lived in one state and worked in another. We both lived in the same state, but whenever I wanted to see him I would have to drive to the state that he works. This is because he stays away from home 3 times for the workweek. So, whenever he doesn’t go home, I would drive to where he was just to see him.
Things had started to get really tense between us. I was constantly accusing him of seeing other women. I started checking his voicemail.
All hell broke loose when I found out that he was in fact seeing me and how many other women, I don’t really know. I am sure they are “countless”, though I could prove only 2. Even when I found out (with proof) about the other 2 women I was holding on to him. Trying to convince myself that I was making a mistake.
It became real when 3 of my girlfriend told me about his behavior at a prominent nightclub; about his public display of affection to another woman in full view of her and other persons in the club who “knew his wife”.
The funny thing about it is that I was hurt, but I was even more hurt for his wife.
One of my girlfriends to me that she actually went up to him, so as to let him know that she and my other girlfriends were there; Anna told me after having spoken to him, all he did was continued kissing this other woman.
Of course I asked him about it, he said he was drunk and yes, he was talking to a woman and dancing as he had previously told me, but, he wasn’t kissing anybody.
That same evening he and I spoke, and he said, we should start over, be honest to each other. In light of this, I asked him again about the woman at the club, he denied it.
I went to see him after this incident. He and I has sex, but it just wasn’t the same. I felt dirty. I really wasn’t into having sex with him. I felt resentment towards him.
That same evening he told me that he cannot be there for me, therefore, he would like for me to find someone else. He said nothing would change towards us, we would still see each other, but, as he doesn’t have enough time for me, and he is not able to give me the emotional support that I would like and that he would like me to get, then, it would be best for me to get involved with someone. He went as far as saying he knows things haven’t been the same between us, all we do when we speak with quarrel. He indicated that he was falling in love with me, but, having promised himself that he would never love another woman but his wife, he started avoiding me somewhat. LIES, LIES, LIES, LIES. HE JUST WANTED AN EASY WAY OUT AND OF COURSE, MEN THINKS THAT ALL WOMEN ARE IDIOTS, HE REALLY THOUGHT I WAS GOING TO BUY THAT.
The Friday night I called him and told him that it was over [I was only being silly because it was already over]. When I told him this he asked me, “Why do you have to make such an absolute decision?”.
I put the pieces together about the woman he was with at the nightclub. It was one of the women whose message I heard on his voicemail. She is a teacher.
I called her, I harassed her as doing this would make him get upset and also to let him know that I knew about her.
This woman apparently works in another state and visits the state where we live occasionally. I had asked him if he was involved with someone from Florida who teaches, and he said no. I called her and it made him mad.
After all the pain he had put me through he wanted us to be friends. A part of me wanted to but a part just did not. I could not be his friend.
Right now I am hurting so much. He was the one who said to me I should not get involved with another man and not tell him, and he wouldn’t get involve with anyone and not tell me. I wanted to hurt him so badly. Our little fling lasted 1 year. He was tired of me and wanted to move on to the next skirt.
Why am I sending this email?
I believe that women need to stop playing fools. Stop allowing us to be used by these men. They treat us as if we are toys or maybe their puppets. I also believe that married women NEED to pay more attention to their husbands’ adulterous lifestyle. A lot of wives are out there who knows that their husbands are seeing other women and they have turned a blind eye. YOU NEED TO SIMPLY STOP IT!!!!!
If you trust your husband that’s fine because I am not stirring up trouble. If you don’t trust your husband then it’s a different story. If you know that your husband was a player before you got married, then don’t think that getting married and having children is going to put a stop to it, because is it simply wont.
I believe in Karma, so I believe that this will face me one day. I am ashamed, I feel dirty and used.
I sure hope that this message will give some wives a wake up call.
During our relationship Anthony got drunk on one of the occasion that I saw him. I was upset with him for getting drunk. While I was showering he came in the shower. When I was getting out he held onto me and we had sex in the shower. Before this we were always careful. This to say, your husband is exposing you to various STD’s. If he did that with me then he is doing it with other women, because he often gets drunk. Right now, I am a bit worried, because who knows?????
There isn’t just physical abuse, remember there is also emotional abuse. Why put yourself though that???
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WATCHING YOUR HUSBAND IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW. NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THE NEED TO KNOW.
DO IT!!!! WATCH HIM!!!!
 Saturday, September 18, 2004 at 15:02 |
89 ) - HELP...WENT THREW 2 HURRICAINS
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I KNOW THERE ARE ALOT OF YOU THAT SEEN FLORIDA AFTER THE 2 HURRICAINS WENT THREW. I AM A SIGLE MOM OF 3 KIDS. AGE 16, 14, & 11. MY CAR AND HOUSE WERE DAMAGED IN THE STORMS. AND WE LOST ALL ARE FOOD TWICE IN A MONTH. WE WERE WITH OUT POWER FOR WEEKS. I WORK EVERYDAY BUT STILL CANT SEEM TO MAKE ENDS MEET. I DONT KNOW HOW I WILL EVER GET THINGS BACK TO NORMAL. SO IF ANYONE OUT THERE CAN FIND IT IN YOUR HEART TO HELP ME AND MY KIDS WILL FOREVER BE GREATFUL. MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS UDREAMING@YAHOO.COM " GOD BLESS YOU ALL " SHEILA
Saturday, September 18, 2004 at 12:33 |
88 ) - come back to me
In september of 2003, I begain seeing a girl who I would eventually fall in love with. Never in my life have I ever me anyone like this girl. We are two very different people, but also the same in many ways the two of us have only seen. for 9 months our relationship was almost perfect, but ever since we moved to a small town to live together and begin start pursuing our careers, things have changed. She has gone back to the way she was in high school, drinking, drugs, and coming home at 11am. It scares me, I have tried talking to her, but her stubborness takes over. IT is hard to explian to all my friends here about the girl I once new, the girl I fell in love with, the girl who is my heart and soul. I relaize people only change when they want to change. I have never cried so much, in such a short period of time in my life. she wrote to me once....."I love you more then words could ever say"..........I miss her, I pray everyday for a mircale, Please.....come back to me.
Saturday, September 18, 2004 at 10:22 |
87 ) - good person who lent a hand out to the wrong people
It all started early summer 2004 end of June and the start of July. I had a few days off work and researching for a second Job. I came across this girl who had no place to stay and asked me if I had a dollar so she can feed her kids what she could afford. She had just got kicked out her apartment and no money and no food to feed her kids. I'm a very compassionate person and I try to help out those who are in a situation thats very hard to get out of. I gave her 5 dollars and she said thank you. I said your welcome and I had to leave to catch my bus. She followed me and we talked all the way to the bus stop and she asked for my help again but not for money..she had a hotel room and she asked if i can stay overnight while she go and talk with some family members about something. I said yes because it looked like she needed to talk to a close relative about her situation. I stayed the night and fell asleep, when i woke up everything that i ever owned was gone. My purse which had my I.D, social security card, my son's pictures( i had to put my son up for open adoption a year ago because i wasn't in a situation for where i can raise a baby. No place to stay and not enough money to provide for him)everything that has to deal with my life, my clothes except for two outfits..everything.. All i was left with was two outfits and personal items to keep clean. thats was all. No money and no job. I had no money and my parens couldn't help me out because they were no where around. This girl started to call my job and threatening my boss if she didn't tell her where I was. that's how I ended up losing my job that same day I woke up and realizing everything was gone. I ended up finding out that she had sold all my personal belongings and my I.D and social security, etc to some Dope sellers in fresno so she can get high off Chystal Meth. I didn't realize she was a "tweeker" til I lost everything. Now im stuck on rock bottom. Im a kind, good-hearted person, who never lies, never steals and always respectful. I graduated h.s with a 3.0 gpa and went to a 4yr university for one year and I end up ( at 22yrs old) homeless, broke,no job, and no clothes but two outfits and I have to start all over, fresh and its hurting me and making me ask why..why does bad things happen to good people. I don't know. I tell myself everyday I wake up since that happened. this happened only 4 weeks ago. now Im in fear for my life because they or ( her clique) is after to kill me because they think I'm a snitch. how am i a snitch when i was trying to help somebody out and I get screwed at the end with everything of mine is stolen and sold for dope..Now, Im stuck at rock bottom for helping out the wrong, shady, nasty character this girl is. All she told me where lies and stories so she can get her way to get dope. its just not fair. if somebody could answer my question I would like to know the answer. Why do bad things happen to good people?
thank you for hearing my story
Jeanyce A. Thompson
Tuesday, September 14, 2004 at 10:37 |
86 ) - Want a new job. Stay home with my family
Hello,
I want to tell you a little bit about my self. I'm 32 years old. I have almost bee married 1 year, In the last five years ther has been alot of hard ache.I was raped and assaulted by a ex-boyfriend in 1999. Went through 1 week trail. He is serving 30 years for this crime. In 2002 I lost my best friend my older brother from a drug overdoseI found him. That is the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. I had my first child in 2000. And was a single parents for 3 years until I met my true love. We got married last October and had alittle girl this April. I bought my first house when I was 24. I have worked at the same job for over 13 years. And resigned because we bought a new house . And I wanted to work closer to my family. My husband is diabetic. And I feel he can't work very much because when he over does it he has a reaction.I am reallly worried about my family. We need to incomes to survive but that isn't possible or is it. My wish is to have a stay home job that both me and my husband can do to provided a good life for our kids. And enjoy each other . Life is to short to work your but off. My wish is at laest a 80,000.00 a year job with no start up money. Please help!! And a no scams.
Saturday, September 11, 2004 at 19:54 |
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